I cooked dinner today [and yesterday, and I think the day before]. I started cooking the moment I arrived home cos I was hungry and wanted to eat. So assuming that everyone was going to be back for dinner, I cooked three portions.
I smsed to ask them where they were when dinner was almost done, so A took really long to reply as usual, the other (B) took an unusually long time to reply. A says he's playing tennis with a mutual friend, will be eating out, he's sorry that he didn't tell me, asked if I cooked a lot. I told him I can eat his share cos I was hungry.
Then B walked over to join A and A was supposed to drive both of them back. When B met A, A says he wants to play for half an hour more. ?!
B smses me, says that since it's going to rain, B is just going to eat out. ?!?! Rain -> stop playing -> come back and eat?
Doesn't A know that B is depending on him to drive back? They've been playing for 2 hours and it's not some formal thing... Doesn't it make sense to stop playing already? I mean since the situation is a bit messed up and he caused it by not telling me? Time to stop and atone for his mistake?
In sooth I know not why I am so angry.
Food/money -> can waste
Effort -> spent
Time -> probably wasting more if I feel angry
I seriously don't get the logic in this mess.
And the worst thing is, why do I feel angry about food being wasted like that?
- The first of staying-together issues